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The Philosophy I Live By: What We Do for One We Do for All
Never was I more convinced of this philosophy then when I recently stood in front of the crowd of runners and walkers at the start of the...
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Sep 16, 20222 min read


"Drive-by" Gardening
I do this every day. A few weeds pulled here as I walk to my car, a few there as I am taking out the garbage, a few more as I walk to...
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Jun 13, 20221 min read


The Kindness of a Stranger
In February my husband and I got lost. Lost hiking in--coincidentally--Lost Dutchman's State Park at the base of the Superstition...
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Apr 21, 20223 min read


Say Yes!
Try this: experiment with saying yes to everyone and everything that happens. Yep. As long as it is not harming you or someone else, just...
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Mar 13, 20222 min read


Savoring
Research suggests, believe it or not, that about 43% of our daily actions are habitual, conducted on autopilot without much conscious...
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Feb 7, 20222 min read


This New Year set an intention--a "sankalpa"
In the new year, we can feel pressure to set resolutions given our culture's focus on setting goals to "be better." Beginning the new...
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Dec 30, 20213 min read


Entangled
Most of the situations that entangle our minds are not today's concerns. We hang on to yesterday's self-blame, judgement, and criticism....
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Oct 19, 20212 min read


World Mental Health Day is Oct 10
In a given year 1 in 5 people in the U.S. will experience a mental health issue. This is a normal part of being a human in our world. Are...
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Oct 6, 20212 min read


Do Your Patterns Serve You?
I invite you to pay attention to your patterns of reacting to the world around you--your relationships, your work, your losses, your...
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Sep 21, 20212 min read


Floating
We all have heard of self-care. Most of us try to do it. As a therapist, I help my clients care for and repair wounds to their emotional...
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Jun 29, 20213 min read


The Tree at the Top of the Hill
Recently I was jogging in Potter's Forest near the Boerner Botanical Gardens in Greendale, WI. The trails there are one of my favorite...
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Jun 15, 20212 min read


Broken Things
Recently an antique mirror hanging in our house for many years simply fell to the floor and the swirly gold gilt frame cracked in many...
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May 24, 20212 min read


THINK
We are told to "think before you speak." During these emotional times in our neighborhoods, our marriages, our friendships, this axiom is...
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Apr 29, 20212 min read


What's Your Purpose?
In my psychotherapy work with clients, many say to me, "I don't have a purpose," or "I don't know what my purpose is." Lacking a rudder...
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Mar 3, 20212 min read


Conscious Aging
I recently turned the big number 60. Six-oh. As in, oh my goodness, how did this happen on my watch?? At the same time as I was digesting...
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Feb 23, 20213 min read


Anxiety
Many of us struggle with anxiety. Unchecked, anxiety can become catastrophizing. Catastrophizing is when we assume something bad---or...
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Feb 9, 20212 min read


Be Rooted in HOPE
“We must accept finite disappointment but not lose infinite hope.” These words of Martin Luther King are a reminder that we must make...
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Jan 20, 20211 min read


The Jewels of Life
"We all carry it within us; supreme strength, the fullness of wisdom, unquenchable joy. It is never thwarted and cannot be destroyed. But...
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Jan 13, 20212 min read


Safe Use Sites—Through the Eyes of a Mother Who Lost a Son to the Opioid Epidemic
While there’s some justice in the wake of Purdue Pharma recently pleading guilty to three federal criminal charges related to their part...
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Jan 4, 20213 min read


Love
And every day, the world will drag you by the hand, yelling, "This is important! And this is important! And this is important! You need...
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Dec 20, 20201 min read
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